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Divorce or a breakup can be tough. Tough on you, tough on your family. In a roundabout way, it can be tough on your friends and coworkers, too as they see you struggle.
After the divorce, there are many seemingly unanswerable questions: Where did I fail? How did it come to this? What’s next for me? Who am I as a single person? What do I want at this point in my life?
There are other, more practical issues to address, too. If your spouse handled the finances, you may have to do it for the first time. Or maybe it’s mowing the grass, doing laundry, cooking, cleaning the house, or other basics. Your life is about to change (or has changed). None of it is beyond your grasp, it’s just new and different and, maybe at times, overwhelming. Handling the new activities and the dynamics that go along with them is when
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